I hurt so much...

[Stan]

I hurt so much because my young, lovely and hairy mistress left me. She was fed up that I wouldn't divorce my old hag for a wife. I told her I cannot just go ahead because that old back would suck me dry (no prenup). When we married I contributed with everything and in 13 years of marriage I have contributed with about 90% of all we have. But the sick judicial system here in the US want to strip me of most which leaves me with very little to take care of my newfound love (the mistress that left me). Why can't she get it into her pretty little skull that I need time to divert my assets to keep them from my greedy wife getting any of it?!

When I finally found a lovely women she leaves me. Life ain't fair is it.

I'm now left again with a 52 year old saggy titted hag who likes to shepe figures with the little pubes she has, something worse than being completely shaved. I'll never f**k her again, be sure, but what to do? I'm very unhappy now.

Cheers from Utah

[Phil]

Stan,
Where to begin? Geez.
First I wanna thank you very much for sharing something personal. Why doesn't everybody do that way more often here? What better place to talk openly and honestly about anything and everything?
I'm really sorry that you are hurting so much right now. Of course, if it's any consolation whatsoever, you are most certainly not alone. And you're right: life is definitely not fair, and the judicial system here in the States is biased towards women in most all cases. (At least we are consistent here in the States: we get everything wrong.)
That your mistress now insists that you divorce your wife is a very strong indication that she loves you a lot. (Either that or she wants to be the one to get a hold of your assets - only you would know which it is.) I believe there's a very good chance that she will want to reunite with you - probably sooner rather than later. Meanwhile, your temptation may be to try to reach out to her, beg her to come back, get her to change her mind. I would do none of the above. My feeling is that she is much more likely to return to you if you just play it totally cool.
You say that you've explained to your mistress that you just need time to divert your assets. That sounds reasonable to me. Sounds like she is just being impatient. If she really loves you, then she will wait for you. She should be able to understand that without any trouble, and be willing to wait for as long as it takes. Or maybe she is just being mistrusting, not believing that you will follow through with that.
Another thought I have is that if you really don't wanna lose her, and if she is really that hairy, young and beautiful, then the assets that you're referring to shouldn't even matter that much. In that case, it seems that your primary objective should be not to lose her. Which would mean, you know, divorce that 'hag' ASAP, consequences be damned, keeping your eye on the real prize: the young beauty with an abundance of thick pussybush.

[Phil]

[Stan]

Thanks Phil for your insights. I've decided to play hardball, don't know where it's gonna take me but if there's one thing I hate it's to humiliate myself. So here's the game plan: 1. Divert my assets, slowly but surely so no one suspect anything. 2. Give my mistress an ultimatum, type "honey the thing is....in about x months I can go through with the divorce and still provide for the two of us after". 3. Give notice to my old bag that I want out.

It might not be the smartest and I know there will probably be plenty of hairy girls out there waiting anyway so I don't need to make the wrong decisions based on one girl. BUT, I still need to get out of my marriage that is slowly but surely dragging me into a black hole of unhappiness. This I can't accept. I still have much to give to the right girl so I refuse to die a slow death in the sex and loveless company of my wife.

I'll get to it right away. Wish me good luck. I might post here again the results.

Cheers from Utah

[Phil]

Yeah, Stan, please keep us updated.
Sounds like you are clearly unhappy in your marriage, so I think your game plan is a good one. Sounds like you've thought this whole thing through, and you sound pretty resolute, so that's good. Keep us apprised of what's going on.

[Phil]

Stan,
Hope you're doin' okay!
It's been five months now. How's it going? Care to give us an update, bro?

[Stan]

Hi there Phil,

Thanks for checking up on me. I sold my house and everything in it, gave half the money to the old bag + my car and left for S.F. I bought a small condo and a small Japanese car. Lucky for me I was able to get a position in my company in S.F. My mistress is now my wife to be (soon). Yes she came back to me. And she seems content with this more humble life. I really don't care. If she leaves me or stays with me. I make a prenup with whoever tie the know so I'll be in the clear should something bad happen. And if she doesn't accept that then it's bye bye. I am so very happy to be free as a bird again and able to make my own choices that separating from all that cash suddenly doesn't seem so important anymore. So I suppose so far things have gone both with and against me but I'm happy now and in the end happiness is what I was looking for all along.

I'll be posting my girlfriend here soon I think. Gotta let her grow that big bush of hers that I am so fond of

Cheers from S.F.

[Phil]

Wow!!! This sounds like a great report! Thanks a lot, and it's so good to know that now you are free. Very impressive, because you really grabbed the bull by the horns and made some radical changes, including a change of scenery. I'm sure that your girlfriend is happy, too. Really awesome. It honestly feels really good to read this update.
Yeah, please, please, please, for the love of God, post her here! No rush...let's say....before the year is thru(?)

No question we all want to see her natural beauty!!
From one coast to the other, all the best to you both.